Do from Belief
What would you DO if you first Believed that you ARE a Good Mom?!
We are always trying to change our “do”, right? Well, what if I told you that it would be Soooooooo much easier to change what you’re doing (or not doing) if you FIRST Believed!?
It’s true, my friend! You do wha you believe about yourself. If you believe that you are a night owl, no matter how badly you want to get to sleep earlier, if it clashes with your own brain’s self image, it’s not going to happen.
If you continuously tell yourself that you are lazy, impatient, short tempered, whatever! Then your brain will believe you! You HAVE to be careful about the food that you are feeding your brain. It takes it all in and stores it as fat. That’s easy to put on and hard to take off, can i get an “Amen!”
We must become aware of the thoughts we are telling ourselves about ourselves because that becomes our identity.
And a lot of our identities are built on lies!!
You ARE not lazy! You ARE not impatient! You are a human being! You ARE a daughter of God! And God is Good! So You ARE GOOD!! (I cannot shout this from the rooftops enough!)
So when you believe in your inherent nature as BEING Good, THEN, what would you DO?
You would actually do all the things that you’ve been erroneously thinking would Make you a good mom. You don’t have to do anything or stop doing anything to be a good mom. You just ARE already good. And when you believe that, then the magic happens and you can do all the things and stop doing all the things.
But if you don’t believe it first, you feel like you’re banging your head on a brick wall, because you essentially are. Fighting your brain just causes dissonance and it doesn’t work. So retrain your brain first and then the actions follow suit nicely.
I promise this is how it works. Try it out. And hit me up for help. Cause that’s what a coach can help you do. Retrain your brain first so then the actions take care of themselves.
And an added bonus is that the stuff that doesn’t really matter, drops off.
For instance, I used to think that in order to be a good mom, I had to give my babies baths every night. I heck no thank you did not want to do that! So I rationalized it. The have excema and their skin can handle that so often, bla bla bla… But instead, when I know and understand that I am Still a Good Mom even though I don’t want to do baths every day, I can easily let go of that expectation.
There is No List of Dos and Don’ts to make you a good mom!
You already are good and then you get to decide what you want to do and not do!!
That makes it easier to actually accomplish AND **added bonus** it takes the resentment out of your life also! When you actually WANT to do what you’re doing, you drop your victim story and start loving you life!! Yay!
If you think that already believing that you are a good mom is as hard as believing in Big Foot,
That’s what I do. I help moms believe that they ARE a Good Mom!
